Contact Kyle Benson

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I typically do interviews for podcast/blogs regarding themes on the site. I would love to talk with you as well. (Please note: This is for professional interviews only.)

In order to create a high-quality interview, please let me know how I can help you make the episode amazing. Use the show details section to describe the topic of the show, the planned duration of the interview (15 minutes – 60 minutes), articles that made you want to interview me, and anything else you think is important.

Sharing, Quoting and Republishing:

You are welcome to share my work with other people however you see fit. There is no need to contact me beforehand. If you quote me, a link back to the original article is always appreciated. If you’d like to republish an article on your site in full, I ask two things.

  1. Please add a line that says: This article was originally published on This should be added at either the beginning of the article.
  2. At the end of the article, please add a byline that says: Kyle Benson is an Intentionally Intimate Relationship coach providing practical, research based tools to build long-lasting relationships. Kyle is best known for his compassion and non-judgemental style and his capacity to seeing the root problem. Download the Intimacy 5 Challenge to learn where you and your partner can improve your emotional connection and build lasting intimacy. Connect with Kyle on Twitter and Facebook. For more tools visit

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