Better Relationships

Why Insecure People Struggle With Vulnerability

Insecurity

Insecurity

As we’ve seen on this site, vulnerable communication is the solution for finding a healthy relationship and happy life. At a glance, most treat vulnerability as if it is something every person can do. Many believe that if the person sets their mind to it, they can get their needs met in a healthy manner.… Continue reading Here

The Bizarre Way Invulnerability Prevents Healthy Relationships

Invulnerability

Invulnerability

There’s a reason you’re reading this.

Perhaps you’re afraid to approach an attractive woman. Maybe you hear yourself bringing up boring topics like sports and the weather. Lots of us fall back on these topics. They’re “safe” and surface topics that don’t risk offending anyone.… Continue reading Here

The Value Dating Economy

The Value Dating Economy

It’s Easter. You’re in the grocery store, and you can’t stop staring at the attractive person buying flowers. You feel a pull towards them.

You’re obsessively strategizing ways to introduce yourself. When we become attracted to someone, we don’t necessarily choose who it is: there’s never a logical reason behind it.… Continue reading Here

Asserting Your Needs is Sexy, Not Needy

Asserting Your Needs is Sexy, Not Needy

Far too often I work with people that feel like they get walked on in their dating life. They’re unsure if the person they like reciprocates those feelings back. Most of these people struggle in their dating lives because they choose not to assert themselves in fear of being rejected, or being deemed high-maintenance or unattractive for seeming needy.… Continue reading Here