Authentic Dating Advice

The Value Dating Economy

The Value Dating Economy

It’s Easter. You’re in the grocery store, and you can’t stop staring at the blonde girl buying flowers. You feel a pull towards her. She’s beautiful.

You’re obsessively strategizing ways to introduce yourself. When we become attracted to someone, we don’t necessarily choose who it is:  there’s never a logical reason behind it..… Continue reading Here

Your City Affects Attraction

Your City Affects Attraction

Part I of Dating Demographics

As Jared Diamond pointed out in his book Guns, Germs and Steel, there are many things that are relative to environment; humanity’s evolution, values, inventions, and even diseases. It wasn’t until food production became a resource for our ancestors that humans actually started condensing populations to smaller areas.… Continue reading Here

Dating Demographics

Dating Demographics

I’ve spent a few years treading water in online dating, swimming through speed dating events, and holding my breath at the local “meet markets.”  When I really felt lonely, I could line up  five or six dates a week. But the more dates I went on, the more frustrated I became with the type of women I was meeting.… Continue reading Here

Asserting Your Needs is Sexy, Not Needy

Asserting Your Needs is Sexy, Not Needy

Far too often I work with guys that feel like they get walked on in their dating life. They’re unsure if the person they like reciprocates those feelings back. Most of these guys struggle in their dating lives because they choose not to assert themselves in fear of being rejected, or being deemed unmanly for seeming needy.… Continue reading Here