Dating

Dating Demographics

Dating Demographics

I’ve spent a few years treading water in online dating, swimming through speed dating events, and holding my breath at the local “meet markets.”  When I really felt lonely, I could line up  five or six dates a week. But the more dates I went on, the more frustrated I became with the type of women I was meeting.… Continue reading Here

Investing in an Attractive Identity

Investing in an Attractive Identity

Identity is often viewed as finite and consisting of separate and distinct parts such as family, cultural, religion, personal and professional. But according to Parker Palmer and other psychologists,

Our identity is an ever-evolving core within our biology, and experiences in culture – with our loved ones, friends, people who have harmed or humiliated us as well as people we have harmed, the deeds we’ve done (good or bad) to ourselves and others, other experiences and choices made come together in a melting pot to form who we are in this very moment.

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It’s Your Identity. IDIOT

It’s Your Identity. IDIOT

When I started in Pick-up, I focused, like many men within PUA (Pick-Up Artist Community), of creating the illusion of an “alpha male.” I focused on every word I said and how I looked physically.

At the same time I was struggling to find a single woman I could really see myself with in a long-term relationship.… Continue reading Here