All Articles Organized by Date
To browse all of my articles by title and date, scroll down. Articles are listed in reverse chronological order with my latest essays at the top and my oldest post at the bottom.
April 2020
March 2020
- 11: Even Your Soulmate Will Cause Relationship Problems
- 09: How to Find a Couples Therapist Who Can Actually Help You
- 03: Is it Time to Go to Couples Counseling?
- 03: Negative Interpretations in Romantic Relationships: When What You Think Happened Is Worse Than What Actually Happened
February 2020
- 24: The Intentions vs. Impact Debate: When Partner’s Unintentionally Hurt Each Other
- 12: How to Make a Relationship Last: The Love Tank Theory
January 2020
December 2019
- 16: Is a Lack of Attention Costing Your Relationship?
- 11: 4 Sex Books You Must Read To Understand Sexuality & Orgasm
- 05: 5 Steps to Inspire Your Partner to Join You in Attending Couples Therapy
November 2019
- 13: Attachment Theory Explains Why Your Relationships Fail
- 07: How to Avoid the Relationship Rollercoaster [Interview]
October 2019
- 24: The Conflict Escalator: The ABCs of Escalating Conflict
- 11: 9 Secrets of Happy, Healthy, and Emotionally Committed Relationships
- 09: 5 Easy Ways to Make Sex More Intimate and Romantic
September 2019
- 19: Divorce Prevention: The Light Switch of Love Dilemma
- 11: How Chronic Stonewalling Imprisons a Relationship
- 09: Rewrite Your Money Scripts in Marriage: 7 Steps to a Wealthy Relationship
August 2019
- 21: Relationship Conflict: 9 Signs Yours is Unsolvable and Destructive
- 15: The 6 Types of Relationship-Strengthening Conversations Intentional Couples Have
- 14: How Sex Pressure From Males Kills Female Desire
July 2019
- 10: Make Your Toxic Relationship Healthy
- 08: Both Partners Are Never Equally Satisfied in a Romantic Relationship
- 01: The Cost of Unexpressed Feelings in Romantic Relationships
May 2019
April 2019
March 2019
- 29: The Relationship Decision: Do I Stay or Do I Go? With Briana MacWilliam
- 28: Attachment and Couple Dances With Briana MacWilliam
- 27: The People Pleaser’s Inner Child Work in Adult Relationships With Briana MacWilliam
- 25: A Creative Exercise to Answer Your Most Burning Relationship Question: With Briana MacWilliam
- 05: What is the Difference Between Love and Attachment? With Briana MacWilliam
February 2019
- 14: How Can I Spice Up the Romance in My Relationship? With Briana MacWilliam
- 11: How Do I Express My Needs in a Relationship? With Briana MacWilliam
- 05: Is There Space For Both Personalities In Your Relationship?
January 2019
- 23: The Top 10 Relationship Books I Read in 2018
- 09: How We Used The Aftermath of a Fight to Repair Our Relationship
- 08: New Year’s Resolutions: A New Opportunity for Intimacy (20+ Questions to Ask Your Lover)
December 2018
September 2018
August 2018
July 2018
June 2018
- 30: 7 Ways to Transform Clingy Insecurity Into a Superpower for Healthier Relationships
- 09: 5 Ways Reoccurring Relationship Conflict Can Enhance Your Marriage
May 2018
- 22: Couples Who Play Together, Stay in Love Together
- 11: An Intimate Conversation is Like Traveling the World
April 2018
March 2018
- 23: 7 Daily Rituals Intentional Couples Use to Cultivate Lasting Love
- 08: You Are Only As Insecure As The Relationship You’re In
February 2018
January 2018
- 31: The Death of Love Isn’t Natural: The 7 Steps to Separation
- 22: Conflict Doesn’t Ruin a Relationship, a Lack of Connection Does
- 02: The Top 10 Relationship Articles of 2017
December 2017
- 30: 6 Steps to an Effective Time-out That Stops Nasty Conflict
- 26: Understand the Attachment Styles in Your Relationship with Stan Tatkin
- 23: Win Relationship Conflict By Letting Your Partner Win Too
- 20: War or Love: Flaws of The Human Brain in Relationship Conflict
- 20: 5 Tips to Stress-Proof Your Marriage This Holiday Season
November 2017
- 21: A Better Me Makes A Better We: An Interview with Ellyn Bader, Ph.D.
- 16: 5 Reasons Needy Romantic Partners Remain Insecure
- 09: How You Think About Your Spouse Determines How You Love Them
October 2017
September 2017
- 29: The Anxious-Avoidant Relationship Trap: An Interview with Amir Levine Part II
- 13: 5 Habits of Emotionally Wealthy Marriages
August 2017
- 26: Defensiveness Doesn’t Protect a Relationship
- 23: Stopping the Pursue-Withdraw Pattern: An Interview with Scott R. Woolley, Ph.D.
- 17: Great Relationships Are Not Accidents
- 10: Have You Committed to a Contempt-Free Marriage?
- 03: The Habit of Criticism is Poisonous to Any Relationship
July 2017
June 2017
- 30: Small Things Often Create Secure Attachments: An Interview With Amir Levine, M.D.
- 23: Reaching a Compromise: Part two of the State of the Union Meeting
- 18: Understanding Each Other: Part One of the State of The Union Meeting
- 08: Stop Trying to Fix Your Partner’s Feelings, Connect with Them Instead
- 01: How to Listen Without Getting Defensive in Relationship Conflict
May 2017
- 25: Understanding Must Precede Advice in Relationship Conflict
- 17: Transforming Criticism into Wishes: A Recipe for Successful Conflict
- 11: There Are Two Views to Every Conflict and Both Are Valid
- 04: Help Your Partner Understand Your Side of the Conflict in 3 Steps
April 2017
- 26: This Pre-Conflict Warm-up Helps Couples Fight Better
- 15: Do You Bottle Your Emotions? Susan David, Ph.D. Describes How It Hurts Your Relationship
March 2017
February 2017
- 27: An Always Happy Relationship is a Doomed Relationship
- 09: The Human Heart Was Made to Be Known and Loved
- 07: Repairs During Conflict Are a Superpower of Emotionally Connected Couples
January 2017
- 19: How Emotional Agility Improves Relationships: An Interview with Susan David, Ph.D.
- 18: 4 Common Solvable Problems in Romantic Relationships
December 2016
- 29: The Top 10 Relationship Articles of 2016
- 26: The Risky Paradox of Love: The More You Give, The More You Feel
- 21: Couples That Talk About Sex Have Better Sex
- 10: The Magic 6 Hours That Makes Love Last (Based on Research)
- 01: The One Daily Talk That Will Change Your Relationship
November 2016
- 25: The Black Friday of Relationships (& The Thanksgiving Challenge)
- 04: 4 Marriage Myths That Ruin Marriages Without Partners Realizing It
October 2016
- 26: 2 Hidden Ways We Sabotage Intimacy In The Relationship We Want
- 21: 5 Steps to Fighting Better if Your Relationship is Worth Fighting For
- 08: The Top 3 Vulnerabilities That Ruin Your Relationship
- 07: Emotionally Intelligent Men are Key to a Lasting Relationship
- 03: Avoid 3 Common Money Myths in Marriage
September 2016
- 26: 4 Steps to Overcome Gridlock That Harms Relationships
- 19: 6 Steps to Financial Wealth in Your Marriage
- 15: 5 Rules for Having Constructive Relationship Conflict Conversation
- 12: Automate Money in Your Marriage and Save More Than Just Money
- 09: 3 Betrayals That Ruin Relationships (That Don’t Require Sex)
- 06: 4 Steps to Overcome Financial Gridlock in Your Marriage
- 03: 5 Signs You May Need to Bail on Your Relationship (Based on Research)
August 2016
- 29: 5 Guidelines for a Constructive Conversation About Finances in Your Marriage
- 26: 3 Proven Ways To Reconnect When You’re Disconnected From Your Partner
- 24: The War of Independence In Relationships
- 22: The Money Laws of Marriage: How to Prevent Declaring Emotional Bankruptcy
- 15: The Meaning of Money in Marriage: Arguments Are Not Just About Saving or Spending
- 09: The #1 Thing Couples Fight About Based On 40 Years Of Research
- 05: 5 Love Books That Will Challenge Your Relationships
July 2016
June 2016
- 13: Why Couples Stop Having Sex: The Paradox Of Yes In Saying No
- 12: 6 Steps To Becoming An Emotionally Available Lover
- 08: 7 Enhancing Lovemaking Conversations for Couples
May 2016
- 30: 3 Must Do’s For Amazing Sex
- 26: How To Fight If Your Marriage Matters
- 26: Easily Indicate You Want Sex Using the Arousal Scale for Couples
- 24: 5 Relationship Books That Will Profoundly Change The Way You Love
- 18: Have You Conditioned Your Husband To Badger You for Sex?
- 11: Why Is Sex Such A Massive Issue For Unhappy Couples?
- 09: Why Sticking To I Statements In Couple Talk Is So Cliche
- 05: Sex Problems: The Partner With Low Desire Controls Sex
- 02: The Couple’s Guide To Fighting Better: Focus On The Issue
April 2016
- 28: If You Want A Good Sex Life, Then Work At It
- 21: The Story of Us: The Difference Between Happy & Unhappy Couples
- 18: Are Love Laws Throwing You In Relationship Jail?
- 07: If Love Requires Effort, Was It Meant To Be?
March 2016
December 2015
- 28: The Dependency Paradox of Love
- 24: Making Your List, Checking…Who is Hot or Not
- 21: Women Want and Need Men to Succeed
November 2015
October 2015
- 26: The Reason Scientists Are Confused About Attraction
- 23: The Strange Way Childhood Shapes Your Adult Relationships
- 19: Why Needing a Relationship is Toxic to a Relationship
- 14: The 6 Factors That Determine Who You Fall In Love With
- 07: Why You Choose Who You Love
- 05: Why Insecure People Struggle With Vulnerability
September 2015
- 30: Women Do Not Judge Attractiveness by a Man’s Resources
- 20: The Bizarre Way Invulnerability Prevents Healthy Relationships
- 16: Does Your Lover Actually Love You?
- 13: Why Men Change For Women
- 07: Coffee To I Love You in 4 Minutes
August 2015
July 2015
June 2015
- 17: The Demographics to Your Ideal Woman
- 13: Develop Your Dating Niche and Attract Women You’ll Love
- 10: The Value Dating Economy
- 07: Your City Affects Attraction
- 04: Dating Demographics