The Lasting Lovers Mindset

Have you ever wondered what it takes to make love last?

There is a mismatch between what culture tells us and what the research based on long-lasting relationships has discovered. I share the later.

First a Question:

• If Love Requires Effort, Was it Meant to Be?

The Mindsets in Relationships

The mindset in which we approach our relationships determines the quality of our relationships.

• Attachment Theory Explains Why Your Relationships Fail
• The Strange Way Childhood Shapes Your Adult Relationships
• 2 Hidden Ways We Sabotage Intimacy in the Relationship We Want
• The War of Independence in Relationships
• 4 Marriage Myths that Ruin Marriages Without Partners Realizing It
• The Top 3 Vulnerabilities that Ruin Your Relationship
• 3 Betrayals that Ruin Relationships (That Don’t Require Sex)
• Small Things Often Create Secure Attachments: An Interview with Amir Levine, M.D. 

Handling Emotions

Emotional connection is vital to a meaningful long-lasting relationship

• Emotionally Intelligent Men are Key to a Lasting Relationship
• How Emotional Agility Improves Relationships: An Interview with Susan David, Ph.D.
• Do You Bottle Your Emotions? Susan David Ph.D. Describes How it Hurts Your Relationship
• 3 Healthy Steps to Coping with Your Partners Anger

The Mindset of Lasting Love

Learn how to become experts on each other

• Good Relationships Are Not Accidents
• Are Love Laws Throwing You in Relationship Jail? 
• The Dependency Paradox of Love
• Relationships are Always Dependent
• Changing Your Intimacy Style
• The Story of Us: The Difference Between Happy and Unhappy Couples
• The Magic 6 Hours that Makes Love Last (Based on Research)
• The Black Friday of Relationships and The Thanksgiving Challenge
• 8 Profound Lessons Intimate Relationships Teach Us
• 6 Steps to Becoming an Emotionally Available lover