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Hi I'm Kyle,

I’m a relationship research nerd. My passion is uncovering practical and research-based tools to help romantic partners co-create an intentional relationship.

My writing focuses on ways romantic parnters can manage conflict better, have more fun, feel more emotionally connected, and have passionate sex. The ideas come from a wide range of research including Attachment Theory, observational research of couples, and research on the effectiveness of couples and sex therapy.

I believe that intentional communication, connection, and intimacy create long-lasting romance. I don’t view myself as an expert on the human heart and love, but I love sharing what I learn from the research and real life examples of what people, like you, experience.

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